Inspiration Story

 

 Our son Ian is a high-functioning person with autism, and taking care of him and watching him mature has been part of my life’s work.

He is now 33, and still happily lives at home. He has been successful in school, having graduated from a community college in Connecticut, and at work.
Our family’s first idyllic summer vacation spot was Cape Cod, Mass. It was the site of growth and maturity for Ian. Cape Cod was where Ian perfected his love of gross motor sports such as walking, swimming and biking; and his love of travel and exploring.

One of my favorite photos of Ian, framed on top of our entertainment center here in Florida, is a photo of him that I took in Cape Cod. He is standing barefoot on a breakwater near our resort in Dennis port. Wearing shorts and a green polo shirt, Ian is peering down at the water, which is at near-high tide, the water almost lapping at his feet. What is this 7-year-old looking at? What is going through his mind? Part of being a parent is not being able to answer all the questions that come rushing to our minds.

“The experience of going to Cape Cod was awesome,” said Ian. “We got to eat some outstanding food and we enjoyed various outdoor activities, such as biking, hiking and swimming in Nantucket Sound, the Atlantic Ocean, Cape Cod Bay and kettle ponds.”

For Ian, traveling and eating in new places have been an important part of his life. And his parents’ lives too.
Written by, By Arthur Henick

Understanding, Diagnosis, Behavior, Actually Autistic

 

Diagnosis

One of the reasons it seems like everyone is autistic these days is that kids are getting diagnosed earlier and earlier. Part of this is because there has been a massive push in the last few years for “early autism diagnosis”. You want to get your child diagnosed as early as you possibly can. Basically,

                                                                     

                                           Understanding

Is he high or low functioning?” It happens almost every time without fail. I’m talking to a mom at the park or a grocery store clerk. I mention that A-Man is autistic because it naturally fits the conversation, and immediately the question comes. “High or low functioning?” What an odd question to ask a stranger.                                                                                                                                   

                                         Behavior      

What is autism? And what is just behavior?  How do I know where the line is between accepting my autistic child as they are, while not letting them do whatever they want just because they’re autistic? Where exactly is the line between the behavior that kids do—because spoiler alert kids misbehave—and the behavior that’s directly     

                               Actually Autistic

Being Autistic is a journey in itself. Here I’ll share about life as someone who is #actuallyautistic

Sleep problems in autism,

 

Sleep problems in autism does anyone else have a problem are issues 

So my boy go to bed but it’s so hard for him to stay a sleep 

A good night’s rest isn’t guaranteed for anyone, but it is downright elusive for many people with autism. Individuals on the spectrum often have trouble falling and staying asleep.

And that may worsen certain features of their condition, such as repetitive behaviors, which can, in turn, make sleeping even more difficult.

Given this disruptive feedback loop, sleep problems are among the most urgent concerns for families grappling with autism. But so far, this also happens to be among other family including myself aspects of autism 

So What types of sleep problems you struggle with 

with my son autism?he cannot stay asleep 💤 still get up early 

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Tips for Enjoying the Holidays With an Autistic Child

 

Holidays can be tough for children with autism. They may be even tougher on us as parents and siblings. But the good news is that for every problem you might encounter, there are real-world solutions you can put in place to make the season bright!

Sensory Issues

Many people with autism have strong negative reactions to bright lights, loud noises, strong flavors and smells.1 The holidays can sometimes feel like a sensory assault! When you're facing the probability of a sensory meltdown, here are some strategies to try:

My tree is up my son also help 

Have a plan B in case of sensory overload. Some children can handle crowds and noise, but only for a limited amount of time. If you decide to take your autistic child to a big holiday event, be sure to have an alternate "plan B" just in case it turns out to be too much for him. If it's just the two of you, you can simply leave. If other siblings or friends are coming along, know in advance which adult will take your autistic child out of the difficult situation while others can stay and enjoy the experience.

We take our son to our daughter basketball team 

Choose sensory-friendly options. While flashing lights on a Christmas tree might overwhelm your child, gently changing lights might charm him. Luckily, modern LED Christmas lights offer multiple ways to enjoy the twinkling. You can also, in many cities, find "sensory friendly" Santas, shops, and other holidays offerings. If these aren't available in your hometown, consider having a small, low-key "visit from Santa" in your own home.

My son loves our tree since my kids both advised me to keep the tree 

Avoid the sensory challenges. Do you really need to take your child shopping with you, or could you possibly shop online, find a sitter, or ask someone else to pick up some items for you? These days, Internet options are just as good as in-person shopping; you can even get the grocery store to deliver.

So this is one of my biggest challenges my son don’t like to be in one place for too long so he stay with my husband 

Give your tough show me your Christmas tree this is the Bradley tree

How to Manage Dental Anxiety with a Child on the Autism Spectrum

According to the CDC, about 1 in 54 children have been identified with an autism spectrum disorder.

Autism is a developmental disorder that can differ vastly from one person to another. Those with autism can experience difficulties communicating and interacting with other people, anxiety when in unfamiliar settings, and sensitivity to bright lights or loud noises.

Table of Contents

• How to Manage Dental Anxiety with a Child on the Autism Spectrum
  • How Common Is Dental Anxiety?
    • Related Posts
  • Why Are Dental Visits Difficult for Children With Autism?
• How Can You Help Your Child Overcome Dental Anxiety?
  • 1. Prepare for the Visit
  • 2. Use a Present
  • 3. Focus on the Positives
  • 4. Encourage Comfort
  • 5. Stop the Treatment
  • Help Make Dental Experiences Less Scary

Keeping Children With Autism Safe Online

 

All kids these days use the internet, but for an autistic child, the appeal of communicating and socializing online, especially by text, is even stronger. After all, there is none of that tone, intonation, facial signals, or body language to worry about that can be so confusing to those living with autism. 

Of course, this means that just like other children, it is our responsibility to educate and guide children with autism on the ways to stay safe online. A topic you can get more detail below. 

Table of Contents

• Keeping Children With Autism Safe Online 
  • Keep Electronics in Common Areas Only
  • Parental Monitoring Software
  • Set Boundaries
  • Educate your child on safety 
  • Communication is Key! 
  • Know What to Do When
  • Social Skills Practice
  • Keeping Children With Autism Safe Online

Many parents feel as if they are less knowledgeable about technology and the internet than their children are. Unfortunately, this can create a situation where a child is given a device and left to fend for themselves when it comes to safety. 

The good news is that even if you don’t consider yourself the next Bill Gates, there are some simple and actionable things you can do to protect your child while they are online.

I have a busy 8 year old son fully in parent mode with my finger tip he can’t get passed 

Dog and autism kids

To all my Parenting am doing a research dog and autism 

Parenting it can be so hectic & overwhelming, but we’re here to help you enjoy the journey! Check my website out  to help you along every step with Advice & Help for the busy mom

There has been a growing trend in helping autistic kids deal with stress. Getting pets - especially dogs - can provide a caring companion that loves your child unconditionally and support them in their daily activities. Any pet can be an adventure - but dogs have proven to be especially effective because of their protective and friendly “pack” dynamic.  A study has found out that of all the families with autistic children they examined, 67% had dogs, and 94% of parents reported their children forming a special bond with their animal