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Inspiration Story

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    Our son Ian is a high-functioning person with autism, and taking care of him and watching him mature has been part of my life’s work. He is now 33, and still happily lives at home. He has been successful in school, having graduated from a community college in Connecticut, and at work. Our family’s first idyllic summer vacation spot was Cape Cod, Mass. It was the site of growth and maturity for Ian. Cape Cod was where Ian perfected his love of gross motor sports such as walking, swimming and biking; and his love of travel and exploring. One of my favorite photos of Ian, framed on top of our entertainment center here in Florida, is a photo of him that I took in Cape Cod. He is standing barefoot on a breakwater near our resort in Dennis port. Wearing shorts and a green polo shirt, Ian is peering down at the water, which is at near-high tide, the water almost lapping at his feet. What is this 7-year-old looking at? What is going through his mind? Part of being a parent is not ...

Understanding, Diagnosis, Behavior, Actually Autistic

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  Diagnosis One of the reasons it seems like everyone is autistic these days is that kids are getting diagnosed earlier and earlier. Part of this is because there has been a massive push in the last few years for “early autism diagnosis”. You want to get your child diagnosed as early as you possibly can. Basically,                                                                                                                  U nderstanding Is he high or low functioning?” It happens almost every time without fail. I’m talking to a mom at the park or a grocery store clerk. I mention that A-Man is autistic because it naturally fits the conversation, and immediately the question comes. “High or low functi...

Sleep problems in autism,

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  Sleep problems in autism does anyone else have a problem are issues  So my boy go to bed but it’s so hard for him to stay a sleep  A good night’s rest isn’t guaranteed for anyone, but it is downright elusive for many people with autism. Individuals on the spectrum often have trouble falling and staying asleep. And that may worsen certain features of their condition, such as repetitive behaviors, which can, in turn, make sleeping even more difficult. Given this disruptive feedback loop, sleep problems are among the most urgent concerns for families grappling with autism. But so far, this also happens to be among other family including myself aspects of autism  So What types of sleep problems you struggle with  with my son autism?he cannot stay asleep 💤 still get up early  Because most people with autism tend to have insomnia: It takes them an average of 11 minutes longer than typical people to fall asleep, and many wake up frequently during the night. Ple...

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Are you interested in writing for Finding live beyond autism? I am always looking for guest posts that fit within the mission of my site. Posts should be special needs or parenthood related, honest and come from a place of love and support. Thank SBradley Include a 2-3 sentence bio with your submission  You can write anonymously if you’d like. Just note that. A suggested post title Paste your post directly in the body of your e-mail or send a word document.  For photos! Please include 3-4 high resolution photos and a minimum of one landscape size (horizontal) photo for the featured image. Please send the original photograph rather than Instagram image. Please keep  post between 600 and 1,000 words. do the best on my site. Life ain’t easy. Parenting is hard. Kids are exhausting. This is just loves the truth! Email your submission to  llivebeyondautism@gmail.com  I will contact you if your work is being

Tips for Enjoying the Holidays With an Autistic Child

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  Holidays can be tough for children with autism. They may be even tougher on us as parents and siblings. But the good news is that for every problem you might encounter, there are real-world solutions you can put in place to make the season bright! Sensory Issues Many people with autism have strong negative reactions to bright lights, loud noises, strong flavors and smells.1 The holidays can sometimes feel like a sensory assault! When you're facing the probability of a sensory meltdown, here are some strategies to try: My tree is up my son also help  Have a plan B in case of sensory overload. Some children can handle crowds and noise, but only for a limited amount of time. If you decide to take your autistic child to a big holiday event, be sure to have an alternate "plan B" just in case it turns out to be too much for him. If it's just the two of you, you can simply leave. If other siblings or friends are coming along, know in advance which adult will take your aut...

How to Manage Dental Anxiety with a Child on the Autism Spectrum

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According to the CDC,   about 1 in 54 children   have been identified with an autism spectrum disorder. Autism is a developmental disorder that can differ vastly from one person to another. Those with autism can experience difficulties communicating and interacting with other people, anxiety when in unfamiliar settings, and sensitivity to bright lights or loud noises. Table of Contents How to Manage Dental Anxiety with a Child on the Autism Spectrum How Common Is Dental Anxiety? Related Posts Why Are Dental Visits Difficult for Children With Autism? How Can You Help Your Child Overcome Dental Anxiety? 1. Prepare for the Visit 2. Use a Present 3. Focus on the Positives 4. Encourage Comfort 5. Stop the Treatment Help Make Dental Experiences Less Scary

Keeping Children With Autism Safe Online

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  All kids these days use the internet, but for an autistic child, the appeal of communicating and socializing online, especially by text, is even stronger. After all, there is none of that tone, intonation, facial signals, or body language to worry about that can be so confusing to those living with autism.   Of course, this means that just like other children, it is our responsibility to educate and guide children with autism on the ways to stay safe online. A topic you can get more detail below.  Table of Contents Keeping Children With Autism Safe Online  Keep Electronics in Common Areas Only Parental Monitoring Software Set Boundaries Educate your child on safety  Communication is Key!  Know What to Do When Social Skills Practice Keeping Children With Autism Safe Online Many parents feel as if they are less knowledgeable about technology and the internet than their children are. Unfortunately, this can create a situation where a child is given a device ...

Dog and autism kids

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To all my Parenting am doing a research dog and autism  Parenting it can be so hectic & overwhelming, but we’re here to help you enjoy the journey! Check my website out  to help you along every step with Advice & Help for the busy mom There has been a growing trend in helping autistic kids deal with stress. Getting pets - especially dogs - can provide a caring companion that loves your child unconditionally and support them in their daily activities. Any pet can be an adventure - but dogs have proven to be especially effective because of their protective and friendly “pack” dynamic.  A study has found out that of all the families with autistic children they examined, 67% had dogs, and 94% of parents reported their children forming a special bond with their animal